going beyond what is appropriate, permitted, or courteous
Of course, I could not have expressed this view to Mr Farraday without embarking upon what might have seemed a
capable of being assigned
The fact that my attitude to this same suggestion underwent a change over the following days - indeed, that the notion of a trip to the West Country took an ever-increasing hold on my thoughts - is no doubt substantially
attributable to - and why should I hide it? - the arrival of Miss Kenton's letter, her first in almost seven years if one discounts the Christmas cards.
the mental state of being obsessed by something
But let me make it immediately clear what I mean by this; what I mean to say is that Miss Kenton's letter set off a certain chain of ideas to do with professional matters here at Darlington Hall, and I would underline that it was a
preoccupation with these very same professional matters that led me to consider anew my employer's kindly meant suggestion.
(informal) small and of little importance
The fact is, over the past few months, I have been responsible for a series of small errors in the carrying out of my duties. I should say that these errors have all been without exception quite
trivial in themselves.
a meaning that is not expressly stated but can be inferred
As so often occurs in these situations, I had become blind to the obvious - that is, until my pondering over the
implications of Miss Kenton's letter finally opened my eyes to the simple truth: that these small errors of recent months have derived from nothing more sinister than a faulty staff plan.
negligent of neatness especially in dress and person
Who knows how many quarrels, false accusations, unnecessary dismissals, how many promising careers cut short can be attributed to a butler's
slovenliness at the stage of drawing up the staff plan? Indeed, I can say I am in agreement with those who say that the ability to draw up a good staff plan is the cornerstone of any decent butler's skills.
worthy of being chosen
In any case, my point is that it was during the course of this interview, when I raised the question of the difficulty of recruiting
suitable staff in these times, that Mr Farraday, after a moment's reflection, made his request of me; that I do my best to draw up a staff plan - 'some sort of servants' rota' as he put it - by which this house might be run on the present staff of four - that is to say, Mrs Clements, the two young girls, and myself.
discouraging through fear
Recalling a time when I had had a staff of seventeen under me, and knowing how not so long ago a staff of twenty-eight had been employed here at Darlington Hall, the idea of devising a staff plan by which the same house would be run on a staff of four seemed, to say the least,
a feeling of intense dislike
I had then, over those days of struggling with the staff plan, expended a significant amount of thought to ensuring that Mrs Clements and the girls, once they had got over their
aversion to adopting these more 'eclectic' roles, would find the division of duties stimulating and unburdensome.
demanding strict attention to rules and procedures
I fear, however, that in my anxiety to win the support of Mrs Clements and the girls, I did not perhaps assess quite as
stringently my own limitations...
characterized by undue lack of attention or concern
...although my experience and customary caution in such matters prevented my giving myself more than I could actually carry out, I was perhaps
negligent over this question of allowing myself a margin. It is not surprising then, if over several months, this oversight should reveal itself in these small but telling ways.
longing for something past
So it was in this instance; that is to say, my receiving the letter from Miss Kenton, containing as it did, along with its long, rather unrevealing passages, an unmistakable
nostalgia for Darlington Hall, and - I am quite sure of this - distinct hints of her desire to return here, obliged me to see my staff plan afresh.
worthy of imitation
And the more I considered it, the more obvious it became that Miss Kenton, with her great affection for this house, with her
exemplary professionalism - the sort almost impossible to find nowadays - was just the factor needed to enable me to complete a fully satisfactory staff plan for Darlington Hall.
bring up a topic for discussion
Nevertheless, I considered most carefully what might be the most opportune occasion to bring the matter up with him; for although I would not for one moment, as I say, suspect Mr Farraday of inconsistency, it nevertheless made sense not to
broach the topic when he was preoccupied or distracted.
having a preference, disposition, or tendency
In fact, when I bring in the afternoon tea, Mr Farraday is
inclined to close any book or periodical he has been reading, rise and stretch out his arms in front of the windows, as though in anticipation of conversation with me.
converse in a playful or teasing way
Indeed, to put things into a proper perspective, I should point out that just such
bantering on my new employer's part has characterized much of our relationship over these months - though I must confess, I remain rather unsure as to how I should respond.
act, feel, or give mutually or in return
Nevertheless, I could never be sure exactly what was required of me on these occasions. Perhaps I was expected to laugh heartily; or indeed,
reciprocate with some remark of my own.
perplexed by many conflicting situations or statements
I could not see, then, how I might press on with this bantering; in fact, I decided it best to call a halt to the matter and, pretending to remember something I had urgently to attend to, excused myself, leaving my employer looking rather
unclearness by virtue of having more than one meaning
Not so long ago, if any such points of
ambiguity arose regarding one's duties, one had the comfort of knowing that before long some fellow professional whose opinion one respected would be accompanying his employer to the house, and there would be ample opportunity to discuss the matter.
the particular occupation for which you are trained
And let me tell you, if you were to have come into our servants' hall on any of those evenings, you would not have heard mere gossip; more likely, you would have witnessed debates over the great affairs preoccupying our employers upstairs, or else over matters of import reported in the newspapers; and of course, as fellow professionals from all walks of life are wont to do when gathered together, we could be found discussing every aspect of our
standing above others in character or attainment
Perhaps I will convey a better idea of the tone of those evenings if I say that regular visitors included the likes of Mr Harry Graham, valet-butler to Sir James Chambers, and Mr John Donalds, valet to Mr Sydney Dickenson. And there were others less
distinguished, perhaps, but whose lively presence made any visit memorable...
the quality of affording easy familiarity and sociability
There existed in those days a true
camaraderie in our profession, whatever the small differences in our approach.
an indirect (and usually malicious) implication
But this morning, I must say, I found it quite offensive and it may well have been the urge to demonstrate just how foolish his
insinuation had been that caused me to set off up the footpath.
having or displaying great dignity or nobility
For it is true, when I stood on that high ledge this morning and viewed the land before me, I distinctly felt that rare, yet unmistakable feeling - the feeling that one is in the presence of greatness. We call this land of ours Great Britain, and there may be those who believe this a somewhat immodest practice. Yet I would venture that the landscape of our country alone would justify the use of this
being of striking appropriateness
pertinent is the calmness of that beauty, its sense of restraint. It is as though the land knows of its own beauty, of its own greatness, and feels no need to shout it.
not in keeping with accepted standards of what is proper
In comparison, the sorts of sights offered in such places as Africa and America, though undoubtedly very exciting, would, I am sure, strike the objective viewer as inferior on account of their
the cognitive condition of someone who understands
Incidentally, now that I come to think further about it, it is not quite true to say there was no dispute as to who were the great butlers. What I should have said was that there was no serious dispute among professionals of quality who had any
discernment in such matters.
without any attempt at concealment; completely obvious
Now I do not doubt that Mr Neighbours had good organizational skills; he did, I understand, mastermind a number of large occasions with
conspicuous style. But at no stage did he ever approach the status of a great butler.
a high standing achieved through success or influence
The Hayes Society claimed to admit butlers of 'only the very first rank'. Much of the power and
prestige it went on to gain derived from the fact that unlike other such organizations which have come and gone, it managed to keep its numbers extremely low, thus giving this claim some credibility.
something that is required in advance
Pressure to have these announced steadily mounted, and in response to a series of letters published in A Quarterly for the Gentleman's Gentleman, the Society admitted that a
prerequisite for membership was that 'an applicant be attached to a distinguished household'.
the ideal in terms of which something can be judged
In the end, it was revealed in a brief letter to A Quarterly that in the view of the Society - and I will try and quote accurately from memory - 'the most crucial
criterion is that the applicant be possessed of a dignity in keeping with his position. No applicant will satisfy requirements, whatever his level of accomplishments otherwise, if seen to fall short in this respect.'
properly or sufficiently qualified, capable, or efficient
If one looks at these persons we agree are 'great' butlers, if one looks at, say, Mr Marshall or Mr Lane, it does seem to me that the factor which distinguishes them from those butlers who are merely extremely
competent is most closely captured by this word 'dignity'.
attempt by employing effort
Now while I would accept that the majority of butlers may well discover ultimately that they do not have the capacity for it, I believe strongly that this 'dignity' is something one can meaningfully
strive for throughout one's career. Those 'great' butlers like Mr Marshall who have it, I am sure, acquired it over many years of self-training and the careful absorbing of experience.
a quality belonging to or characteristic of an entity
But those same absent
attributes, I would argue, are every time those of a superficial and decorative order,
attributes that are attractive, no doubt, as icing on the cake, but are not pertaining to what is really essential. I refer to things such as good accent and command of language, general knowledge on wide-ranging topics such as falconing or newt-mating -
attributes none of which my father could have boasted.
strive to equal or match, especially by imitating
The obsessions with eloquence and general knowledge would appear to be ones that emerged with our generation, probably in the wake of Mr Marshall, when lesser men trying to
emulate his greatness mistook the superficial for the essence.
provide a service or favor for someone
Mr Charles remembered marvelling at how my father showed not one hint of discomfort or anger, but continued to drive with an expression balanced perfectly between personal dignity and readiness to
steadiness of mind under stress
equanimity was not, however, allowed to last.
immune to attack; incapable of being tampered with
According to Mr Charles, my father did not display any obvious anger. He had, it seemed, merely opened the door. And yet there was something so powerfully rebuking and at the same time so
unassailable about his figure looming over them that Mr Charles's two drunken companions seemed to cower back like small boys caught by the farmer in the act of stealing apples.
the quality of being important
Mr Silvers, however, had remembered the
significance the visit would have for my father, and had thus called him in to offer him the option of taking several days' leave for the duration of the General's stay.
the property of being close together
My father, appreciating his employer's position, volunteered immediately to take the General, and thus was obliged to suffer intimate
proximity for four days with the man he detested.
support with evidence or authority or make more certain
I hope you will agree that in these two instances I have cited from his career - both of which I have had
corroborated and believe to be accurate - my father not only manifests, but comes close to being the personification itself, of what the Hayes Society terms 'dignity in keeping with his position'.
of the greatest importance
We may now understand better, too, why my father was so fond of the story of the butler who failed to panic on discovering a tiger under the dining table; it was because he knew instinctively that somewhere in this story lay the kernel of what true 'dignity' is. And let me now posit this: 'dignity’ has to do
crucially with a butler's ability not to abandon the professional being he inhabits.
extremely annoying or displeasing
The great butlers are great by virtue of their ability to inhabit their professional role and inhabit it to the utmost; they will not be shaken out by external events, however surprising, alarming or
unfriendly behavior that causes anger or resentment
Continentals - and by and large the Celts, as you will no doubt agree - are as a rule unable to control themselves in moments of strong emotion, and are thus unable to maintain a professional demeanour other than in the least challenging of situations. If I may return to my earlier metaphor - you will excuse my putting it so coarsely - they are like a man who will, at the slightest
provocation, tear off his suit and his shirt and run about screaming.
formality in bearing and appearance
It is surely a professional responsibility for all of us to think deeply about these things so that each of us may better strive towards attaining '
dignity' for ourselves.