In this play, Oscar Wilde explores the relationship between a husband and wife who each have reason to suspect the other of being unfaithful. Read the full text here.
said or done without having been planned in advance
I can fancy a person doing a wonderful act of self-sacrifice, doing it spontaneously, recklessly, nobly—and afterwards finding out that it costs too much.
incongruity between what might be expected and what occurs
She accepts public disgrace in the house of another to save me....There is a bitter irony in things, a bitter irony in the way we talk of good and bad women.
But rather than my wife should know—that the mother whom she was taught to consider as dead, the mother whom she has mourned as dead, is living—a divorced woman, going about under an assumed name, a bad woman preying upon life, as I know you now to be—rather than that, I was ready to supply you with money to pay bill after bill, extravagance after extravagance, to risk what occurred yesterday, the first quarrel I have ever had with my wife.
forming or having the nature of a turning point or crisis
I thought I had no heart. I find I have, and a heart doesn’t suit me, Windermere. Somehow it doesn’t go with modern dress. It makes one look old. [Takes up hand-mirror from table and looks into it.] And it spoils one’s career at critical moments.