Though I have seen it recently, and both woman and room have diminished in size, changed by the new perspective of my eyes, now capable of looking over countertops and tall beds, it is not this picture I carry in my memory of Mama's casa.
It was on this bed where her own children were had been born that the smallest grandchildren were allowed to take naps in the afternoons; here too was where Mama secluded herself to dispense private advice to her daughters, sitting on the edge of the bed, looking down at whoever sat on the rocker where generations of babies had been sung to sleep.
As a middle child, my mother remembers these occasions as a time when the women sat in the kitchen and lamented their burdens, while the men feasted out in the patio, their rum-thickened voices rising in song and praise for each other, companeros all.
As a middle child, my mother remembers these occasions as a time when the women sat in the kitchen and lamented their burdens, while the men feasted out in the patio, their rum-thickened voices rising in song and praise for each other, companeros all.
She gave up the comfort of Papa's sexual love for something she deemed greater: the right to own and control her body, so that she might live to meet her grandchildren-me among them- so that she could give more of herself to the ones already there, so that she could be more than a channel for other lives, so that even now that time has robbed her of the elasticity of her body and of her amazing reservoir of energy, she still emanates the kind of joy that can only be achieved by living according
She gave up the comfort of Papa's sexual love for something she deemed greater: the right to own and control her body, so that she might live to meet her grandchildren-me among them- so that she could give more of herself to the ones already there, so that she could be more than a channel for other lives, so that even now that time has robbed her of the elasticity of her body and of her amazing reservoir of energy, she still emanates the kind of joy that can only be achieved by living according
She gave up the comfort of Papa's sexual love for something she deemed greater: the right to own and control her body, so that she might live to meet her grandchildren-me among them- so that she could give more of herself to the ones already there, so that she could be more than a channel for other lives, so that even now that time has robbed her of the elasticity of her body and of her amazing reservoir of energy, she still emanates the kind of joy that can only be achieved by living according
Papa acceded to her wishes, child after child, since he had learned early that Mama's renowned temper was a thing that grew like a monster along with a new belly.
Created on Wed Sep 12 17:11:38 EDT 2012
(updated Tue Oct 09 13:19:54 EDT 2012)
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