asperity

Asperity is the harsh tone or behavior people exhibit when they’re angry, impatient, or just miserable. When your supervisor’s “Late again!” greeting causes your entire future to pass before your eyes, he is speaking with asperity.

The harshness that asperity implies can also apply to conditions, like "the asperities of life in a bomb shelter." Or even more literally to surfaces, like "the asperity of an unfinished edge." But, most often, you will see asperity used in reference to grumpy human beings.

Definitions of asperity
1

n harshness of manner

Synonyms:
sharpness
Antonyms:
bluntness, dullness
without sharpness or clearness of edge or point
Type of:
ill nature
a disagreeable, irritable, or malevolent disposition

n something hard to endure

“the asperity of northern winters”
Synonyms:
grimness, hardship, rigor, rigorousness, rigour, rigourousness, severeness, severity
Types:
sternness
the quality (as of scenery) being grim and gloomy and forbidding
Type of:
difficultness, difficulty
the quality of being difficult

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