dither

When you dither, you're flustered because you can't make up your mind about something. You might dither about what to do if your two best friends invite you to parties on the same night.

The verb dither implies not only that you're having a hard time deciding about something, but that you're upset or agitated about it. You might say to your friend, "Don't just pace around and dither about what to wear! We're going to be late!" In the 17th century, dither meant "quake or tremble," and by the early 1800s it came to mean both "vacillate" and "be anxious."

Definitions of dither
  1. verb
    act nervously; be undecided; be uncertain
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    type of:
    fret
    be agitated or irritated
  2. verb
    make a fuss; be agitated
    synonyms: flap, pother
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    type of:
    fret, fuss, niggle
    worry unnecessarily or excessively
  3. noun
    an excited state of agitation
    “he was in a dither
    synonyms: flap, fuss, pother, tizzy
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    type of:
    agitation
    a mental state of extreme emotional disturbance
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